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How Your Indulgence Improves Your Friendship With Yourself
Image via Wikipedia I remembered my grandma’s hair today. She had this little vanity. Used to roll it up at night and put her net over. In the morning she was careful about it. She had good hair....
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Cultivate Fantasy To Improve Reality
I am the proud finisher of the SF Half Marathon. It was the most beautiful run I’ve been on and my miles ran one minute faster (twelves) than I had planned (thirteens.) My husband coached and joined...
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Let your calendar serve your own needs this year
Sometimes, a holiday is just a day. So much of life happens off of the calendar. Why the holiday, then? If we unclicked the icon on our google calendar, the blue letters would disappear. Just like...
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Say It Out Loud. Three Day Challenge.
Hello friends. Please join us at Friend to Yourself in a three day, “Say it Out Loud,” challenge. Throughout the next three days, whenever you think of something you like & are grateful for about...
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Day # three. Say it out loud.
I like my short hair. My hair has been long since I was round eight years old and I miled, by way of identity, with that dark healthy slightly curly low maintenance face-frame. Life yuck and plain old...
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Live with an agenda
dionna, 1991. (Photo credit: paul posadas) The blue dragon lifted her head from near-sleep. She knew. Pouncing onto the rocky ledge gave her the advantage. No one would challenge her. The fresh...
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More on Life-ers. (Those darn perdy dandelions.)
Image via Wikipedia I had an interesting comment a couple of days ago on the concept of Life-ers. If you have a weed in your garden, you pull it. If there’s something wrong in your life, you don’t...
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Getting Older and Getting Born
Sana_Set09_LeoChaves_032 (Photo credit: LeoChaves) Turned another year over. Forty one now. Sometimes I already feel like there is a toe tag on me. Other times I ride the consciousness of now and...
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Conditional Love With Me
We have a tenuous relationship with ourselves. Very conditional, as if we were in a constant state of probation. Have you noticed? Conditional love: part of the human condition. I was reading the...
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Your Fabulous Stardom
“Taylor Swift is a rock star!” The girl was in awe. She had written versions of this all over her paper in various star-quality designs. Everything was about Taylor Swift. I was watching her at the...
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Quirky Blessings
I did it again! Left the house in my slippers. Mercy. Didn’t realize until I parked at work. So, I think again about balance and slipper reminders. Oh, and about the socks… I have my reasons....
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Lupita Nyong’o Speech on Beauty – W-O-W! And, thank you.
“…and my mother again would say to me you can’t eat beauty, it doesn’t feed you and these words plagued and bothered me; I didn’t really understand them until finally I realized that beauty was not a...
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Bearable Disappointment
Guest Post! Read on :) We’re aware as smart single women that we can’t expect perfection. But life still manages to throw us curve balls. Maybe once you’re into your mid-thirties, it shouldn’t be...
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Know You Are Blessed
Think of the worst of us. Think of the worst about us. Think of those with self-loathing. Those with low self-awareness, the violent, and the violated, think of them. Where is the blessing?...
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I’m peaking in my career
Supposedly, I’m peaking. And this isn’t about egg yolk and marenge pie. I’m 43 years old, have been in medical practice for fourteen years, and am looking at a canyon in 360-degrees from where I...
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A Tiffany Diamond Isn’t This Good
I’m in San Bernardino today, working in a small community clinic. I am in the company of four licensed and practicing physicians who are donating their time. I am blessed. One physician I’m working...
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Blood, Sweat, and Imperfections – Mommy Don’t Look!
Naked and Voyer Blood soaked and layered with fallen governments, the Acropolis remains, a witness and teacher to a summer fling. A tour of the Acropolis and its new museum taught much. #1 – Never go...
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My Inner Demons and I are on the Same Side – Living in the Now
“I stop fighting my inner demons. We’re on the same side now. T-shirt” ― Darynda Jones, Second Grave on the Left Monday came. I was not ready to tackle the day. I lay in bed a few minutes longer...
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